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DebAllen
Deb Allen

Wed

Sep 8
1999

02:22

Gaming with spouse...

At 02:05 PM 9/7/99 -0500, edhogg@equus.demon.co.uk wrote:
>>
>>Wives aren't allowed to play in their husband's roleplaying games?
>
>I only GMed my wife a few times, and that was years ago, but does anyone
>in this situation ever notice stress from real-life relationships
>intruding into games? It never happened with us but I wondered about it
>in the long term.
>
>And does marriage counter the "GM's Girl/Boyfriend" syndrome?
>
I've GMed for my husband numerous times now.  It began before we dated,
when I ran a Champions game.  Then were dating during my WW campaign.  Now
we are married and he's playing in my new Amber campaign.  I'd say he likes
my games -- he refused to play Amber for *years* but was willing to try my
game when I decided to run one.

I don't think I'm unfair with respect to Kevin's character -- Jenn, Josh,
correct me if I'm wrong.  I try not to give him any more or less of the
game than anyone else.  I try to tailor my games so that each character
gets their time to shine.

I also find that it is often a stress-relief from real life.  Gives us a
chance to connect a bit and have fun, instead of dealing with real life
trauma.  *smile*  I'm glad we can game together.

D.
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