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JimArona
Jim Arona

Sat

Jun 10
2000

05:16



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M vs F styles in RP

>JA>  Frankly, you'd have to back it up in that fashion. My experience has
not
>JA>shown me any like this. I DM 3 women, and 4 men at the moment, and I
would
>JA>be forced to define two of the women as being more logical than
>JA>free-associative, and two of the men as being more free-associative.
>
>Today's (on the web) Dilbert is particularly apt here, I think:
>
>PHB:  Ming, everyone says our web site is ugly.
>Ming:  Really?  Every person on Earth said that? Even Tibetan monks?
>PHB:  Maybe it was just one person.
>Ming:  And you confused him with the entire planet?
>
>Neither Deb nor I am claiming that even Tibetan monks have the broad
>gender-biased tendencies we've noted (they're generalities and trends,
>only noticeable in large samples), but I think someone is confusing his
>experiences with the entire planet...


You have chosen to accept a particular kind of activity as being male or
female predominant. Admittedly, as a generalisation. I don't accept your
contention. I have no experience that this is the case, and am disinclined
to take you on your word on the  matter.
I will always prefer my own experience as the final judgement on whether or
not something is right, and simply because a lot of people are prepared to
support a contention doesn't, of itself, convince me to accept yours. There
have been times when people thought the world was flat.
I haven't said that I think women and men play differently. I have said that
I don't believe that men require rules more than women. If anything, my
experience has been that men wish to operate in a world that is freer of
those constraints than women are. On the other hand, I'm not convinced that
there is enough evidence for me to take that position firmly.
What I am convinced of is that there is no distinct evidence one way or the
other. In the view of the fact that the contention has been made, then the
contention ought to be shown. Otherwise, you could make any number of wild
assertions.
I am merely saying that I don't believe a word of this particular
contention, unless it's backed up with some reputable source.

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