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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

02:02Z

Admin

When you start out on a Phoenyx list, you're moderated, as a lot of 
new guys (hi, everybody) have noticed.  Once the first post gets 
passed through, you're generally no longer moderated.  This keeps 
down the number of "I DIDNT ASK FOR THIS GET ME OFF THIS 
NOW!!!1!!!1!!" posts from confused persons.  The list owner can 
change the number of posts that get held for moderation, but on 
GMAST it's a default 1, the "just so we know you meant to post 
here" level.

Occasionally, I temporarily set non-newbie posters back to 
moderation, as I just have with "cra2."  It has nothing to do with the 
fact that he's argued with Carl, other than that Carl is a longtime 
(pre-Phoenyx, even) GMASTer and thus rates a little more respect 
than someone who hasn't even hit his first anniversary here.  If 
anybody (besides cra2) thinks Carl somehow "started it," they're 
welcome to point out where and how, and I'll happily moderate him, 
too.  Heck, he's moderated me before.  Fair's fair.

Anyway.  Carry on, all.  Just lighten up on the carrying-on, okay?

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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WhispErcut
Whispercut

Thu

Dec 14
2000

14:53Z

Admin

Yes. I think you should moderate Carl. I think he was just as much
responsible for this level of discussion.
In fact, I think your posts on the issue were partisan in his favour. I
don't believe that you're being fair, at all, by moderating Cra2. Not that
I subscribe to his position, or even Carl's.
And, I certainly don't think that the amount of time someone has been on a
list merits any kind of 'respect'. That, it seems to me, is merely a
rationalisation of nepotism.


Karen Cravens wrote:

> When you start out on a Phoenyx list, you're moderated, as a lot of
> new guys (hi, everybody) have noticed.  Once the first post gets
> passed through, you're generally no longer moderated.  This keeps
> down the number of "I DIDNT ASK FOR THIS GET ME OFF THIS
> NOW!!!1!!!1!!" posts from confused persons.  The list owner can
> change the number of posts that get held for moderation, but on
> GMAST it's a default 1, the "just so we know you meant to post
> here" level.
>
> Occasionally, I temporarily set non-newbie posters back to
> moderation, as I just have with "cra2."  It has nothing to do with the
> fact that he's argued with Carl, other than that Carl is a longtime
> (pre-Phoenyx, even) GMASTer and thus rates a little more respect
> than someone who hasn't even hit his first anniversary here.  If
> anybody (besides cra2) thinks Carl somehow "started it," they're
> welcome to point out where and how, and I'll happily moderate him,
> too.  Heck, he's moderated me before.  Fair's fair.
>
> Anyway.  Carry on, all.  Just lighten up on the carrying-on, okay?
>
> --
> Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

14:58Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 8:53, Whispercut wrote:

> And, I certainly don't think that the amount of time someone has been on a
> list merits any kind of 'respect'. That, it seems to me, is merely a
> rationalisation of nepotism.

So, you're saying I should take everyone equally seriously, even if 
they're nonsubscribers posting from icqmail?  What about 
spammers?  GMAST gets a lot of spam addressed to it.  I'm 
disrespecting and "censoring" those guys, too, by not passing all 
that along.  More nepotism?

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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WhispErcut
Whispercut

Thu

Dec 14
2000

15:25Z

Admin

Karen Cravens wrote:

> On 14 Dec 2000, at 8:53, Whispercut wrote:
>
> > And, I certainly don't think that the amount of time someone has been on a
> > list merits any kind of 'respect'. That, it seems to me, is merely a
> > rationalisation of nepotism.
>
> So, you're saying I should take everyone equally seriously, even if
> they're nonsubscribers posting from icqmail?  What about
> spammers?  GMAST gets a lot of spam addressed to it.  I'm
> disrespecting and "censoring" those guys, too, by not passing all
> that along.  More nepotism?
>

You asked for opinions. Are you asking a question, or offering more of your
sarcastic vitriol?
I've given my opinion, and posted it off the list. Do what you want with it.
But, please, try to stay on the point.

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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

15:35Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 9:25, Whispercut wrote:

> You asked for opinions. Are you asking a question, or offering more of your
> sarcastic vitriol?

I'm asking a question, that being "Should the opinions of non-
members count?"  Since you haven't answered it, I'm going to:  
nope.  I'm not passing through any more nonsubscriber emails, 
whether they're yours or a spammer's.  Go set this address as an 
alternate, a la http://www.phoenyx.net/help/alternate.html, for your 
ihug one.  You'll be able to post from rainbowlord@icq.com, but the 
system will know you're Jim, and behave accordingly.

> I've given my opinion, and posted it off the list. Do what you want with it.

Posted it off the list?

> But, please, try to stay on the point.

Which was?

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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NoctIfer
Noctifer

Thu

Dec 14
2000

15:48Z

Admin

In a message dated 12/14/00 10:00:36 AM Eastern Standard Time, 
silver@phoenyx.net writes:


> So, you're saying I should take everyone equally seriously, even if 
> they're nonsubscribers posting from icqmail?  What about 
> spammers?  GMAST gets a lot of spam addressed to it.  I'm 
> disrespecting and "censoring" those guys, too, by not passing all 
> that along.  More nepotism?

Lemme throw my two cents in here...

I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an individual who 
is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is a little different 
than keeping out those who don't subscribe and spammers.  GMAST-L has gone 
through much, much worse (though few were as nonsensical...I still can't 
figure out where cra2 was coming from...maybe irony or something...I don't 
really know) without the need to kick anyone off...typically, someone truly 
annoying will eventually get bored of the constant harassment and quit or 
they'll calm down when they realize that even their serious posts are getting 
ignored.

Personally, I think moderating cra2 was going a bit too far.  He was an 
annoying twit, and would likely be even more annoying if he rejoined the 
discussion, but GMAST-L has, historically, been a very self-moderated setting 
(in situations such as this).  Anyone who doesn't like that sort of thing 
_should_ leave the list.  While I'd like to see a high number of people 
running around in here, I wouldn't want to give up the "feel" of GMAST-L to 
do it.

Since I'm on the soapbox right now, I also don't think that Carl was out of 
line in his responses, though his initial response could have been a bit more 
informative.  I almost replied to Cra2's post as well, but I figured ignoring 
him would have a better affect.  And yes, I do think Cra2 lied like a dog 
when he suggested he was getting fan mail over his supposed bashing of Carl.

Anyways, that's my 2 cents (with a bit of change left over, perhaps).  I 
don't object to there _being_ a moderator...merely that Cra2's posts weren't 
something that needed to be moderated.  Other than avoiding such moderation 
in the future, I don't really have a suggestion as to how to fix the current 
situation.

Lucifer >:}


Lucifer >:}

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"The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n" --Milton, Paradise Lost, Bk. 1

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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

16:14Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 9:48, Noctifer@aol.com wrote:

> I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an individual who 
> is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is a little different 
> than keeping out those who don't subscribe and spammers.  GMAST-L has gone 
> through much, much worse (though few were as nonsensical...I still can't 
> figure out where cra2 was coming from...maybe irony or something...I don't 
> really know) without the need to kick anyone off...typically, someone truly 
> annoying will eventually get bored of the constant harassment and quit or 
> they'll calm down when they realize that even their serious posts are getting 
> ignored.

For the record, I haven't kicked anyone off.  I almost never do that, 
on the Phoenyx as a whole (even on lists that are a lot less free-for-
all than GMAST) unless it's something like trying to hack in 
(benignly or otherwise).  (Heck, I think JMU is still blocked from the 
entire website on account of that Russian kid.)
 
> Personally, I think moderating cra2 was going a bit too far.  He was an 
> annoying twit, and would likely be even more annoying if he rejoined the 
> discussion, but GMAST-L has, historically, been a very self-moderated setting 
> (in situations such as this).  Anyone who doesn't like that sort of thing 

Historically, yeah.  But right now GMAST isn't a terribly unified 
community.

> _should_ leave the list.  While I'd like to see a high number of people 
> running around in here, I wouldn't want to give up the "feel" of GMAST-L to 
> do it.

Unfortunately, I think GMAST's feel has flickered and died.  We're 
trying to rebuild here, so I think slightly more draconian tactics are 
in order once in awhile.

> Since I'm on the soapbox right now, I also don't think that Carl was out of 
> line in his responses, though his initial response could have been a bit more 
> informative.  I almost replied to Cra2's post as well, but I figured ignoring 
> him would have a better affect.  And yes, I do think Cra2 lied like a dog 
> when he suggested he was getting fan mail over his supposed bashing of Carl.

As Carl said to me, he was terse mostly because he was typing 
one-handed with Nathan in his lap.  And, well, silly responses don't 
rate extensive counter-responses.  I mean, it was kind of obvious... 
we *didn't* agree with Bob, and had managed to say so 
signaliciously.  There wasn't any need to try to cheapen the whole 
conversation by saying "it's all just agreement."

> Anyways, that's my 2 cents (with a bit of change left over, perhaps).  I 
> don't object to there _being_ a moderator...merely that Cra2's posts weren't 
> something that needed to be moderated.  Other than avoiding such moderation 
> in the future, I don't really have a suggestion as to how to fix the current 
> situation.

I disagree, but I can't say why without going into administrative stuff 
that shouldn't be publicly aired, so I'll leave it at that.  But yeah, I'd 
really like to avoid such moderation in the future.  Get GMAST 
back to a reasonable conversation level such that this kind of noise 
is drowned out by signal like it was in The Good Old Days, and it 
won't be necessary.  Hurrah.

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Thu

Dec 14
2000

17:22Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 00, at 9:48, Noctifer@aol.com wrote:

> I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an
> individual who is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is
> a little different than keeping out those who don't subscribe and
> spammers.  

Being slightly more familiar with how the Phoenyx software 
operates, I can point out something you're perhaps missing, in 
message headers:

From: Whispercut 
Subject: Re: GM: Admin
X-List-Id: gmast
X-Message-Sequence: 1569
X-Poster-Status: nonsubscriber

"Whispercut" is /not/ a subscriber.  Who around 
here do we know that is subscribed under 
another address, so he's getting the messages 
to reply to, but who can't reply under the 
address he's subscribed with?

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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

17:36Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 11:22, M. Jason Knight wrote:

> "Whispercut" is /not/ a subscriber.  Who around 
> here do we know that is subscribed under 
> another address, so he's getting the messages 
> to reply to, but who can't reply under the 
> address he's subscribed with?

Good call, but Whispercut's coming in from New Zealand - which 
would make him Jim, not Chuck.  For all I know Chuck's last name 
might be Arona, since I'm guessing cra/ca is his initials, but I 
rather doubt he's Jim.  Or Jim's Chuck, whichever way you want to 
look at it.

(Those headers don't stay in the listmail, but they're on record 
here.)

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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WattErs10
watters.10

Thu

Dec 14
2000

18:53Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 11:22, M. Jason Knight wrote:

> On 14 Dec 00, at 9:48, Noctifer@aol.com wrote:
> 
> > I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an
> > individual who is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is
> > a little different than keeping out those who don't subscribe and
> > spammers.  
> 
> Being slightly more familiar with how the Phoenyx software 
> operates, I can point out something you're perhaps missing, in 
> message headers:
> 
> From: Whispercut 
> Subject: Re: GM: Admin
> X-List-Id: gmast
> X-Message-Sequence: 1569
> X-Poster-Status: nonsubscriber
> 
> "Whispercut" is /not/ a subscriber.  Who around 
> here do we know that is subscribed under 
> another address, so he's getting the messages 
> to reply to, but who can't reply under the 
> address he's subscribed with?

I think this bears pointing out.  I seem to remember that the old GMAST didn't 
have a spammer problem because you had to be a subscriber to post.  Most 
spammers don't want a verifiable email address.  Another list I'm on (the 
UseNet moderator's mailing list) is not protected in any fashion, so the 
occasional spam gets thru there.

The software is a bit more sophisticated now, and allows such things as having 
multiple email addresses for a single poster while routing the contents of the 
mailing list to a single address, thus allowing someone with multiple email 
accounts to use whichever is handy for sending.  

But still, I think that traffic from unsubscribed addresses should be sent to 
/dev/null, while the listowner could send mail explaining how to subscribe the 
alternate addresses.  OF course obvious spams should just get /dev/null and no 
response.

I believe that this was done for me on this list so I could use a couple of 
addresses.  For example, I am mailing using watters.10@osu.edu, which is the 
way Ohio State is expecting us to use our addresses now, while I am actually 
subscribed under cwatters@magnus.acs.ohio-state.edu.  Although, Karen, how 
would I specify my REAL name instead of just seeing ?

Some mailing lists have done away with allowing "throwaway" accounts such as 
hotmail, since they often cause problems with lists with their bounces, etc.

In the time we've been on Phoenyx, I've seen the moderation status option used 
only a couple of times that I can recall.  I do think that when the combatants 
can be pointed out clearly that, as per normal parenting rules B^) the person 
who swung first gets it worse, but everyone involved gets some punishment, 
even if it's just a chastizing.  And in the Craven's case, this could easily 
be offline.

While the ugly "C" word has been brought up, this is just a reminder that 
while the internet is very free-speech oriented, "there ain't no such thing as 
a free lunch".  When GMAST was losing its home, Phoenyx stepped in and 
generously allowed it to move to their host.  Software and hardware upgrades, 
routine maintenance, list admin time all incur costs in one way or another.  
Phoenyx has remained advertising-free while other services (e-groups, frex) 
have come along, and to cover costs (and make a little profit) they insert 
advertising into the messages.*  

Just my .02 federal reserve note
-Coyt


*Thankfully if you're on digest mode you only get one ad for the whole digest, 
but since their thinking of a digest is every time they get 25 messages, I may 
get 5-6 digests containing 25 postings, each with an ad.
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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:22Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 12:53, watters.10@osu.edu wrote:

> I think this bears pointing out.  I seem to remember that the old GMAST didn't 
> have a spammer problem because you had to be a subscriber to post.  Most 
> spammers don't want a verifiable email address.  Another list I'm on (the 
> UseNet moderator's mailing list) is not protected in any fashion, so the 
> occasional spam gets thru there.

We reject BCC's outright, which covers 99% of all the spam we 
get.  Instituting DUL will catch the rest.
 
> But still, I think that traffic from unsubscribed addresses should be sent to 
> /dev/null, while the listowner could send mail explaining how to subscribe the 
> alternate addresses.  OF course obvious spams should just get /dev/null and no 
> response.

Traffic from unsubscribed-but-valid-looking addresses go to the 
listowner for moderation.  Obvious spam gets ashcanned, yes.
 
> Some mailing lists have done away with allowing "throwaway" accounts such as 
> hotmail, since they often cause problems with lists with their bounces, etc.

I'm about to, but it's because Hotmail is so unreliable it's making 
us look bad.  In fact, I think all the GMAST Hotmailers got 
autobounced again (they'll get a "please resub" at midnight).

It's only Hotmail, though, and not all remailers.
 
> While the ugly "C" word has been brought up, this is just a reminder that 
> while the internet is very free-speech oriented, "there ain't no such thing as 
> a free lunch".  When GMAST was losing its home, Phoenyx stepped in and 
> generously allowed it to move to their host.  Software and hardware upgrades, 
> routine maintenance, list admin time all incur costs in one way or another.  
> Phoenyx has remained advertising-free while other services (e-groups, frex) 
> have come along, and to cover costs (and make a little profit) they insert 
> advertising into the messages.*  

'Course, I should point out here that I've passed on the only 
message that's gone to moderation...
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Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:54Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 12:53, watters.10@osu.edu wrote:

> subscribed under cwatters@magnus.acs.ohio-state.edu.  Although, Karen, how 
> would I specify my REAL name instead of just seeing ?

Good question.  I think the fact that it's in parentheses is confusing 
the parser, although it really shouldn't.  Email addresses are a 
really weird spec.

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:57Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 13:54, Karen Cravens wrote:

> Good question.  I think the fact that it's in parentheses is confusing 
> the parser, although it really shouldn't.  Email addresses are a 
> really weird spec.

Okay, I was wrong.  Your messages just acquired a "reply-to" 
which is overriding things.  It really shouldn't, but like I said, email 
addresses are a really weird spec...

-- 
Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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WattErs10
watters.10

Fri

Dec 15
2000

19:26Z

Admin

Ok, lets see if this is better.  I use Pegasus as my email client on all three 
of the ISPs I am using, so I have the reply-to set myself within the client, 
mainly so all of my return mail is filtered through one filter.  I just 
changed the reply-to field in the settings before starting this message.

OB: gaming:  It looks like it's time to update my infamous GM Calc program 
(http://home.columbus.rr.com/originsguide/gcalc32x.zip).  One of the things 
I've been playing with is a way to have it hook into an instant messenger 
program like ICQ, so you can send dice results from the program when sending 
messages or using the ICQ chat program.  GRIP (www.rpgrealms.com) is nice, but 
sometimes setting it up is more trouble than needed.


On 14 Dec 2000, at 13:57, Karen Cravens wrote:

> On 14 Dec 2000, at 13:54, Karen Cravens wrote:
> 
> > Good question.  I think the fact that it's in parentheses is confusing 
> > the parser, although it really shouldn't.  Email addresses are a 
> > really weird spec.
> 
> Okay, I was wrong.  Your messages just acquired a "reply-to" 
> which is overriding things.  It really shouldn't, but like I said, email 
> addresses are a really weird spec...
> 
> -- 
> Karen J. Cravens (silver@phoenyx.net)
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> 



Coyt D. Watters
"The Internet, billions of electrons with nothing better to do."
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NoctIfer
Noctifer

Thu

Dec 14
2000

15:53Z

Admin

In a message dated 12/14/00 10:35:59 AM Eastern Standard Time, mike_f@io.com 
writes:

>I'll also admit that there have been times that I have gotten "sucked
>into" a serious of heated posts and refused to let the matter drop.  I
>certainly would have (in retrospect) appreciated someone screening my
>posts and forcing me to cool down.

As I mentioned in my previous post, I think GMAST-L should continue being a 
very lightly moderated list (self-moderated, to a point).  The periodic jerk 
is part of GMAST-L's "charm."

And as for Carl not letting a subject drop, we've all been guilty of that at 
some point or another...if we were moderated for such a thing, the list 
wouldn't have many posters left.

Besides, do we really need a rule that determines how many posts are to be 
considered "not letting a subject drop" ?

Lucifer >:}

--

"The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n" --Milton, Paradise Lost, Bk. 1

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Thu

Dec 14
2000

15:34Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Karen Cravens wrote:

> On 14 Dec 2000, at 8:53, Whispercut wrote:
> 
> > And, I certainly don't think that the amount of time someone has been on a
> > list merits any kind of 'respect'. That, it seems to me, is merely a
> > rationalisation of nepotism.
> 
> So, you're saying I should take everyone equally seriously, even if 
> they're nonsubscribers posting from icqmail?  What about 
> spammers?  GMAST gets a lot of spam addressed to it.  I'm 
> disrespecting and "censoring" those guys, too, by not passing all 
> that along.  More nepotism?

First, let me say that I'm about two days behind on reading my email,
and IO having fallen off the 'Net for most of yesterday means that
things are seriously strangely ordered, so I don't have the faintest
idea what the issues behind this are.  And the same ice storm that
knocked IO off the 'Net yesterday has now messed up the north east
(yes, from Texas to Massachusetts in ~24 hours), so at the moment, I'm
sitting at home trying to decide when I'll go in to work.

*However*, as a long time (though normally quiet) member of GMAST
(possibly even longer than Carl) I have two things to say in this
case: 

1) Yes, moderate Carl as well.

2) I think you missed Whispercut's point.

On the other hand, I may have missed zir point as well, so I'm going
to present what *I* thought was meant as well as my reasoning for
moderating Carl.

Whispercut's point, as I understand it, is that a person's time on
this (or any other) list is no measure of how reasonable or
"respectable" their arguements are.  A person's arguements stand or
fall on their own basis and not on the basis of the person longevity.
Just because a person is one of the "Great Old Ones" does not mean
that they are not capable of having a blind spot or over-generalizing
from their own experiance.

To this end, each person must be judged each and every time based on
the validty and nature of their arguements.  Carl is just as capable
of giving into personal bias and refusing to let an issue drop as
anyone I have ever seen.  I've seen him do it here, on the FUDGE list
and on TAOGM (I *think* it was TAOGM at least).  If you want to go
into ancient history, I've seen him do it on Red October.

As to whether or not you "should take everyone equally seriously", I
doubt that was Whispercut's intent either.  Certainly I do not think
that you should give up moderating GMAST.  And blocking spam is *not*
nepotism, it is a public service.

Moderating only one side in an arguement and not the other because you
are friends with (or respect or whatever) the other *is* nepotism.
Forcing only one side in a fight to take a "time out" is not fair,
reguardless of "who started it".  As I noted above, Carl does have a
tendency to not let things drop, and I think that, in some cases, an
enforced "cooling off" period would do him good.

I'll also admit that there have been times that I have gotten "sucked
into" a serious of heated posts and refused to let the matter drop.  I
certainly would have (in retrospect) appreciated someone screening my
posts and forcing me to cool down.

-- 
Michael Feldhusen
mike_f@io.com
http://www.io.com/~mike_f/

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CarlCravens
Carl D Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

16:32Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> Carl is just as capable of giving into personal bias and refusing to
> let an issue drop as anyone I have ever seen.

While I'm certainly guilty of this on a general basis, I'm trying to
figure out how I became guilty of this on the topic of dis/agreement with
Bob.  In the recent exchange, I only posted two messages.  I believe I
posted only four messages overall on this topic.

> Moderating only one side in an arguement and not the other because you
> are friends with (or respect or whatever) the other *is* nepotism.

Cra was moderated because he was being rude, not because he was aruguing
with me.

> Forcing only one side in a fight to take a "time out" is not fair,
> reguardless of "who started it".  As I noted above, Carl does have a
> tendency to not let things drop, and I think that, in some cases, an
> enforced "cooling off" period would do him good.

She forced one side, the other side dropped out of it long before anyone
was moderated.  I don't see why anybody thinks I need a "cooling off"
period, especially when I wasn't being insulting in the first place.

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Thu

Dec 14
2000

18:52Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Carl D Cravens wrote:

> On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:
> 
> > Carl is just as capable of giving into personal bias and refusing to
> > let an issue drop as anyone I have ever seen.
> 
> While I'm certainly guilty of this on a general basis, I'm trying to
> figure out how I became guilty of this on the topic of dis/agreement with
> Bob.  In the recent exchange, I only posted two messages.  I believe I
> posted only four messages overall on this topic.
> 
> > Moderating only one side in an arguement and not the other because you
> > are friends with (or respect or whatever) the other *is* nepotism.
> 
> Cra was moderated because he was being rude, not because he was aruguing
> with me.
> 
> > Forcing only one side in a fight to take a "time out" is not fair,
> > reguardless of "who started it".  As I noted above, Carl does have a
> > tendency to not let things drop, and I think that, in some cases, an
> > enforced "cooling off" period would do him good.
> 
> She forced one side, the other side dropped out of it long before anyone
> was moderated.  I don't see why anybody thinks I need a "cooling off"
> period, especially when I wasn't being insulting in the first place.

I noted at the beginning of my reply that I had not yet read the
exchange in question and was responding to Karen's request for
comments on her actions.  I still have not read the exchange in
question, though I have reached Cra2's post that started things.

At no point in my message did I say that *in this case* you had done
*any* of these things in *this* exchange.  Perhaps I was not clear
enough about that.  To clarify, at this point in time, I still do not
know what happened that warrented Cra2 being moderated.  I do not know
if Carl's reply in any way warrented him being moderated.

All I am commenting on is that I felt that Karen's publicly posted
basis for making the decsion was, *in my opinion*, flawed.  If there
were addtional factors that were not contained in Karen's message, I
have not yet seen them and they could change my judgement of whether
or not what she did was correct.

Better?

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CarlCravens
Carl D Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:31Z

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On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> At no point in my message did I say that *in this case* you had done
> *any* of these things in *this* exchange.

Ah, well... you're just abusing me on general principle then.  I can
handle that. :)

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:44Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Carl D Cravens wrote:

> On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:
> 
> > At no point in my message did I say that *in this case* you had done
> > *any* of these things in *this* exchange.
> 
> Ah, well... you're just abusing me on general principle then.  I can
> handle that. :)

Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.

So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players. . . .

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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Thu

Dec 14
2000

19:55Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 00, at 13:44, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
> abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.
> 
> So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players.

If these two statements are linked, I may need to roll up a new 
character.

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Thu

Dec 14
2000

20:04Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, M. Jason Knight wrote:

> On 14 Dec 00, at 13:44, Michael Feldhusen wrote:
> 
> > Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
> > abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.
> > 
> > So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players.
> 
> If these two statements are linked, I may need to roll up a new 
> character.

Whatever would make you think that they might be, Jason?

Besides, I don't need to abuse my players, the other players have
always done a fine job of that for me.  Sometimes it's not even the
*other* playes.  Isn't that right, Coyt?

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WattErs10
watters.10

Thu

Dec 14
2000

23:20Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 14:04, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, M. Jason Knight wrote:
> 
> > On 14 Dec 00, at 13:44, Michael Feldhusen wrote:
> > 
> > > Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
> > > abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.
> > > 
> > > So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players.
> > 
> > If these two statements are linked, I may need to roll up a new 
> > character.
> 
> Whatever would make you think that they might be, Jason?
> 
> Besides, I don't need to abuse my players, the other players have
> always done a fine job of that for me.  Sometimes it's not even the
> *other* playes.  Isn't that right, Coyt?

Definitely.  Although I did learn one thing.  Never charge into security 
headquarters with an assault phaser while screaming a hunting cry.  Without 
armor.  During an assault drill where security doesn't know what to expect.

Coyt D. Watters
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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Fri

Dec 15
2000

03:22Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 00, at 17:20, watters.10@osu.edu wrote:

> Definitely.  Although I did learn one thing.  Never charge into
> security headquarters with an assault phaser while screaming a hunting
> cry.  Without armor.  During an assault drill where security doesn't
> know what to expect.

No phasers... no phasers.

Got it.

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CarlCravens
Carl D Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

21:47Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, M. Jason Knight wrote:

> If these two statements are linked, I may need to roll up a new
> character.

Got one of those "roleplaying-oriented" characters, do you? :)

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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Fri

Dec 15
2000

03:36Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 00, at 15:47, Carl D Cravens wrote:

> Got one of those "roleplaying-oriented" characters, do you? :)

Oh hell yeah.

STR 3, DEX 3, END 6, and Trav stats are your hit points.  Droyne 
are fragile.

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Sat

Dec 16
2000

01:05Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, M. Jason Knight wrote:

> On 14 Dec 00, at 15:47, Carl D Cravens wrote:
> 
> > Got one of those "roleplaying-oriented" characters, do you? :)
> 
> Oh hell yeah.
> 
> STR 3, DEX 3, END 6, and Trav stats are your hit points.  Droyne 
> are fragile.

As I noted before, you are most likely to be abused by your fellow
players.

Unless you decide to get involved in the Marines unarmed combat
training, *physical* damage is *highly* unlikely.

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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Sat

Dec 16
2000

04:22Z

Admin

On 15 Dec 00, at 19:05, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> As I noted before, you are most likely to be abused by your fellow
> players.

Or their characters.

> Unless you decide to get involved in the Marines unarmed combat
> training, *physical* damage is *highly* unlikely.

Depends on how high the ceiling is.  Might not be considered 
"involvement" though.
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CarlCravens
Carl D Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

21:56Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
> abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.

I'm sure you can.

> So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players. . . .

I've always liked the Classic Trav universe, but I've never been very fond
of the military side of things.  I guess it depends on what kind of
characters you're looking for and what kind of action we'll see.

(I'm >this< close to starting a Reign of Steel game.  Maybe on the MOO,
too.  Still haven't got the right angle to talk myself into it yet.)

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MikeF
Mike Feldhusen

Thu

Dec 14
2000

22:10Z

Admin

On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Carl D Cravens wrote:

> On Thu, 14 Dec 2000, Michael Feldhusen wrote:
> 
> > Carl, let me just end this with the statement that if I wished to
> > abuse you, I could do a far better job than *that*.
> 
> I'm sure you can.

[This could get dangerous, we both clearly have a strong desire to get
the last word in here.]

> > So, want to play in a Traveller game?  I'm still looking for players. . . .
> 
> I've always liked the Classic Trav universe, but I've never been very fond
> of the military side of things.  I guess it depends on what kind of
> characters you're looking for and what kind of action we'll see.

OK, I'm looking for "interesting" characters.  Ones that will produce
enjoyable interactions for the players.  Beyond that, I really have
nothing specific in mind.

> (I'm >this< close to starting a Reign of Steel game.  Maybe on the MOO,
> too.  Still haven't got the right angle to talk myself into it yet.)

It could be really interesting.  If you do it on the MOO, I'll
probably have to take a pass though, as finding *regular* time for
gaming has been difficult lately.  PBeM I can (mostly) handle as I
have a moment (though moments have been in short supply lately as
well) but I'd think that MOO stuff would require at least some time
slot coordination.

-- 
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mike_f@io.com
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MasterCougar
mastercougar

Thu

Dec 14
2000

22:22Z

Admin

<<[This could get dangerous, we both clearly have a strong desire to get
the last word in here.]>>
	So knowing this, how about everyone just let it go? Please?

-- 
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NoctIfer
Noctifer

Thu

Dec 14
2000

22:48Z

Admin

>> I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an individual 
who 
>> is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is a little different 
>For the record, I haven't kicked anyone off.  I almost never do that, 
>on the Phoenyx as a whole (even on lists that are a lot less free-for-
>all than GMAST) unless it's something like trying to hack in 
>(benignly or otherwise).  (Heck, I think JMU is still blocked from the 
>entire website on account of that Russian kid.)

I didn't think you had, though I'll admit not knowing exactly what you had in 
mind.  If my understanding is correct, you've set things up so that you have 
to approve a message from him before it'll hit the list, yes?

I'm still opposed to that, but not so severely as the when I had a vaguer 
sense of what was going on.

>> Personally, I think moderating cra2 was going a bit too far.  He was an 
>> annoying twit, and would likely be even more annoying if he rejoined the 
>> discussion, but GMAST-L has, historically, been a very self-moderated 
setting 
>> (in situations such as this).  Anyone who doesn't like that sort of thing 
>
>Historically, yeah.  But right now GMAST isn't a terribly unified 
>community.

I don't feel that, really.  The posting sprees are sporadic, but things don't 
seem to have changed all that much.  GMAST wasn't ever terribly unified to 
begin with...there were oldies, newbies, in-betweens, loons, complainers, 
flamers, etc.  When someone went too far, people jumped in and, eventually, 
things got settled.  It was kinda fun to watch (and periodically participate 
in, though I've settled a bit myself as the years advance), to be honest.

>> _should_ leave the list.  While I'd like to see a high number of people 
>> running around in here, I wouldn't want to give up the "feel" of GMAST-L 
to 
>> do it.
>
>Unfortunately, I think GMAST's feel has flickered and died.  We're 
>trying to rebuild here, so I think slightly more draconian tactics are 
>in order once in awhile.

Well, yer in control, but I _beg_ you not to go for more draconian tactics.  
Keep up the administrative stuff, but let the members of GMAST be, unless 
they _really_ go too far, like blatantly supporting racism or child 
molestation....cra didn't, in my opinion, go that far...at least on-list (I 
can't comment on anything that may have happened off-list).

>> Since I'm on the soapbox right now, I also don't think that Carl was out 
of 
>> line in his responses, though his initial response could have been a bit 
more 
>> informative.  I almost replied to Cra2's post as well, but I figured 
ignoring 
>> him would have a better affect.  And yes, I do think Cra2 lied like a dog 
>> when he suggested he was getting fan mail over his supposed bashing of 
Carl.
>
>As Carl said to me, he was terse mostly because he was typing 
>one-handed with Nathan in his lap.  And, well, silly responses don't 
>rate extensive counter-responses.  I mean, it was kind of obvious... 
>we *didn't* agree with Bob, and had managed to say so 
>signaliciously.  There wasn't any need to try to cheapen the whole 
>conversation by saying "it's all just agreement."

Well, I do understand that Nathan interfered with the situation (maybe Carl 
should be moderated when his lap is full...KIDDING!).

>> Anyways, that's my 2 cents (with a bit of change left over, perhaps).  I 
>> don't object to there _being_ a moderator...merely that Cra2's posts 
weren't 
>> something that needed to be moderated.  Other than avoiding such 
moderation 
>> in the future, I don't really have a suggestion as to how to fix the 
current 
>> situation.
>
>I disagree, but I can't say why without going into administrative stuff 
>that shouldn't be publicly aired, so I'll leave it at that.  But yeah, I'd 
>really like to avoid such moderation in the future.  Get GMAST 
>back to a reasonable conversation level such that this kind of noise 
>is drowned out by signal like it was in The Good Old Days, and it 
>won't be necessary.  Hurrah.

To be honest, this sort of noise has always been around.  There's the 
periodic flame-war, rampant stupidity, etc.  That's part of things around 
here...it's one of the few lists around that such entertainment can still be 
aired.  :)  If there are some who can't stomach the periodic blast of way 
off-topic posts, they need to find another list to enjoy (to be clear, I'm 
not referring to you or Carl or anyone else specific...I'm referring to those 
who decided to unsub or complained that he should be silenced).

Lucifer >:}

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MJasonKnight
M. Jason Knight

Fri

Dec 15
2000

03:42Z

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On 14 Dec 00, at 16:48, Noctifer@aol.com wrote:

> To be honest, this sort of noise has always been around.  There's the
> periodic flame-war, rampant stupidity, etc.  That's part of things
> around here...it's one of the few lists around that such entertainment
> can still be aired.  :)  If there are some who can't stomach the
> periodic blast of way off-topic posts, they need to find another list
> to enjoy (to be clear, I'm not referring to you or Carl or anyone else
> specific...I'm referring to those who decided to unsub or complained
> that he should be silenced).

"Way off-topic posts" fall into two classes.  One type lets us get 
to know one another, which is useful for the group cohesiveness.  
The other type drives off members, which isn't.  Some people 
point to the first type as justification for the second.  I call that 
rules-lawyering munchkinism.

Doesn't help that some posts fall into different classes for 
different readers.
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CarlCravens
Carl D Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

23:17Z

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On Thu, 14 Dec 2000 mastercougar@juno.com wrote:

> 	So knowing this, how about everyone just let it go? Please?

I think you're sensing hostility where there isn't any.  That was just
friendly banter.

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KarenCravens
Karen Cravens

Thu

Dec 14
2000

23:47Z

Admin

On 14 Dec 2000, at 16:10, Michael Feldhusen wrote:

> [This could get dangerous, we both clearly have a strong desire to get
> the last word in here.]

The last time that happened, I had to moderate someone...
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NoctIfer
Noctifer

Thu

Dec 14
2000

22:19Z

Admin

>> I wouldn't go so far as calling it nepotism, but moderating an
>> individual who is interesting in GMAST-L and subscribed to the list is
>> a little different than keeping out those who don't subscribe and
>> spammers.  
>
>Being slightly more familiar with how the Phoenyx software 
>operates, I can point out something you're perhaps missing, in 
>message headers:
>
>From: Whispercut 
>Subject: Re: GM: Admin
>X-List-Id: gmast
>X-Message-Sequence: 1569
>X-Poster-Status: nonsubscriber

Ahhh...now I understand that part of it.  Thanks :)

I'll edit my opinion somewhat...I do think that you should have to be 
subscribed to post messages to GMAST-L :)

Lucifer >:}

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